How to live with a sex addict

Duration: 12min 39sec Views: 1875 Submitted: 12.08.2020
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So you think your significant other is a sex addict? This list of frequently asked questions FAQ and their answers may help shed light on the topic for you. Sex addiction is an obsessive relationship to sexual thoughts, fantasies or activities that an individual continues to engage in despite adverse consequences. Sexual addiction can be conceptualized as an intimacy disorder manifested as a compulsive cycle of preoccupation, ritualization, sexual behavior, and despair. Central to the disorder is the inability of the individual to adequately bond and attach in intimate relationships.

FAQs for Partners of Sex Addicts

Information for Spouses / Partners of Sex Addicts

Sexual addiction is very complex. As a spouse of a sex addict, it is imperative that you understand your role in the recovery process. It is normal to minimize the disconnection you are feeling in your marriage. Obviously, there are relational attachment styles that promote unfounded and unrealistic jealousy patterns, but when there are apparent signs of deviant sexual behavior, it usually indicates a problem. Unfortunately, few sex addicts admit to a problem when confronted with the circumstantial evidence.

Living with a Sex Addict in a Relationship: Can It Work?

Finding out your partner has sex addiction can be a painful and devastating revelation. In a time of such high emotion whilst facing many uncertainties, knowing the future of your relationship can seem like the most urgent issue. It is important not to take the decision of whether to stay or whether to leave lightly and consider all the factors at play here. And of course if you have children, you will want to take their feelings and their welfare into account.
Sex addiction the compulsive sexual behavior described here should not be confused with disorders such as pedophilia or bestiality. For some people, sex addiction can be highly dangerous and result in considerable difficulties with relationships. Some report that it may manifest itself as a compulsive need to masturbate, view pornography, or be in sexually stimulating situations. A person with sex addiction may significantly alter their life and activities in order to perform sexual acts multiple times a day and are reportedly unable to control their behavior, despite severe negative consequences. One characteristic may be secrecy of behaviors, in which the person with the disorder becomes skilled at hiding their behavior and can even keep the condition secret from spouses, partners, and family members.